
A Comprehensive Guide for Anyone Navigating Separation, Parenting, and Financial Disputes
Family court can be confusing and emotionally overwhelming, especially if you’re navigating separation, divorce, parenting disputes, or financial breakdowns. This guide outlines all the major areas of family court, including what each section covers and what you need to know to protect your rights.
🔹 1. Legal Separation & Divorce
This section addresses the formal end of a relationship—whether common-law or married.
- Legal Separation: You do not need a court order to be “legally separated” in Canada. Separation begins when one party decides the relationship is over and communicates that clearly. However, legal steps may follow to sort out children, finances, and property.
- Divorce Application: If you’re married and want a legal divorce, you must file an application with the court. A divorce can only be granted once all issues regarding parenting, child support, and spousal support are resolved.
- Annulment: Rare and only granted in very specific circumstances, such as fraud or lack of consummation.
- Proof of Relationship Duration: Important for common-law cases where the length of cohabitation affects entitlements.
🔹 2. Parenting and Children
Family court places the best interests of the child at the center of all decisions.
✅ Decision-Making Responsibility (formerly “custody”)
Who gets to make major decisions about the child’s education, health care, religion, and general welfare.
✅ Parenting Time (formerly “access”)
Where the child lives and how much time they spend with each parent. Can be equal, majority to one parent, or supervised.
✅ Primary Residence
Determines which parent the child lives with most of the time, important for school zones and medical care.
✅ Supervised Access
May be ordered when there are safety concerns or rebuilding of trust is necessary.
✅ Child Protection
Involves Children’s Aid Society (CAS) or other child welfare agencies. Court can order release of CAS or police reports, particularly where child safety is in question.
✅ Voice of the Child / OCL
- Voice of the Child (VOC) Reports: Let the child’s perspective be heard, typically done by a trained professional.
- Office of the Children’s Lawyer (OCL): A government office that may be appointed to represent the child’s best interests and legal voice.
✅ Mobility and Travel
- Relocation Applications: If one parent wants to move with the child.
- Travel Consents and Passport Disputes: Needed if one parent refuses international travel or renewal of a child’s passport.
🔹 3. Child Support
This is a legal obligation, not optional.
- Table Amounts: Based on the paying parent’s income and number of children.
- Section 7 Special Expenses: Includes:
- Childcare
- Medical, dental, therapy
- Educational tutoring
- Extracurriculars
- Retroactive Support: You can ask for support going back several years.
- Undue Hardship: A rare exception if paying support would cause serious financial harm.
- FRO (Family Responsibility Office): Enforces support orders through garnishment, license suspension, or legal actions.
🔹 4. Spousal Support
Financial support from one spouse to the other post-separation.
- Entitlement: Not automatic. It must be proven based on need, sacrifice, or hardship.
- Amount & Duration: Calculated using Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines (SSAGs).
- Review Clauses: Allow for future changes if circumstances change.
- Taxation: Monthly spousal support is taxable to the recipient and tax-deductible for the payer.
- FRO Enforcement: Can also collect unpaid spousal support.
🔹 5. Property Division
Applies to married spouses under the Family Law Act (different rules for common-law).
- Equalization of Net Family Property: The increase in value of each party’s assets during the marriage is shared equally.
- Matrimonial Home: Special rules apply—both spouses have equal right to possession, regardless of whose name is on title.
- Excluded Property: Includes gifts, inheritances, or personal injury settlements.
- Unequal Division: In extreme cases, a court may order unequal sharing due to misconduct or reckless depletion.
- Valuation Dates: Assets are valued on the date of separation and marriage.
- Hidden/Dissipated Assets: Must be disclosed—failure to do so can result in legal consequences.
🔹 6. Possession of the Home & Property Retrieval
- Exclusive Possession Orders: One party can be granted the right to stay in the matrimonial home even if they don’t own it.
- Retrieval of Belongings: Can be handled by agreement or police-supervised pickup.
- Orders for Sale or Buyout: Courts can force the sale of a home or allow one party to buy out the other’s share.
🔹 7. Interim (Temporary) Orders
These are made quickly to stabilize the situation before trial:
- Temporary Custody or Parenting Orders
- Temporary Support Payments
- Emergency Restraining Orders
- Temporary Housing or Access Orders
These can be made via motions, including emergency (ex parte) motions when urgent.
🔹 8. Restraining & Protection Orders
- Family Law Restraining Orders: Prevent contact or proximity between parties.
- Emergency Protection Orders: Issued quickly in high-risk situations.
- Police Enforcement Clauses: Allow for police intervention if the order is breached.
🔹 9. Enforcement & Contempt
- Non-Compliance: If someone ignores a court order.
- Contempt Motions: Serious—can result in fines or jail.
- Police Enforcement Clauses: Especially useful for parenting orders.
- FRO Enforcement: For support orders.
🔹 10. Disclosure & Case Management
- Financial Disclosure: Mandatory for child/spousal support and property matters (Forms 13 or 13.1).
- Affidavits & Exhibits: Sworn statements and attached evidence.
- Case Conferences: Informal meetings with a judge to resolve or narrow issues.
- Motions: Formal requests for temporary relief or decisions.
- Trial Management Conferences (TMC): Held before trial to organize the case.
🔹 11. Mediation, Arbitration, ADR
- Mandatory Information Program (MIP): First step in many court applications.
- Mediation: Voluntary process to resolve disputes outside court.
- Med-Arb: Starts as mediation, but arbitrator can make a binding decision if needed.
- Parenting Coordination: Post-order tool to resolve parenting disputes.
- Binding Arbitration: Like a private judge—can replace court.
🔹 12. Trials and Final Orders
- Full Trial: When all else fails, each side presents evidence and witnesses.
- Final Orders: Binding decisions on all matters.
- Transcripts and Court Records: May be needed for appeals or enforcement.
🔹 13. Appeals & Variations
- Appeals: Must show an error in law or procedure.
- Variation Motions: Based on “material change in circumstances”—new job, move, remarriage, etc.
🔹 14. Costs & Legal Fees
- Cost Awards: The losing party may have to pay some of the other side’s legal fees.
- Offers to Settle: Used to reduce litigation; rejected offers can affect costs.
- Legal Aid Certificates: Available in certain cases for those who qualify.
🔹 15. Cross-Jurisdictional & Third-Party Issues
- Hague Convention Cases: International child abduction.
- Interjurisdictional Support Orders (ISO): Enforcing orders across provinces or countries.
- Third-Party Property or Business Interests: May need to be brought into the case.
🧭 Final Thoughts: Know Your Rights, Stay Informed
Family court is not just about legal documents—it’s about your children, your future, and your well-being. Knowing how each section works gives you power and clarity, especially when the system feels overwhelming or unfair. Whether you’re going through a simple separation or a high-conflict litigation, understanding these categories can help you track progress, hold your lawyer accountable, and make informed decisions every step of the way.